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Challenge Completed: Public Speaking Fear Factor

Public speaking has haunted me my entire life, and I've actively avoided situations where I needed to present to groups larger than three people. When Victoria Hopkins from the New Hampshire Occupational Therapy Association contacted me to ask if I would be interested in kicking off the 2024 annual conference as the keynote speaker, my initial reaction was a resounding no!

Despite my nerves, I realized this was a golden opportunity to highlight the incredible impact occupational therapists have had on my recovery. I concluded that this would be a wonderful chance to give back and showcase how occupational therapists have inspired and motivated me to achieve both professional and personal milestones.

I informed Vicki that I was honored to present on 11/02/2024 at the University of New Hampshire, in front of an expected crowd of over 100 people. How difficult could it be? I thought putting together some slides and speaker content would be a breeze. However, the truth is that it took immense time and effort to create content that would resonate with experienced occupational therapists and students attending the event.

I focused on three key areas:

  1. My journey, including the emotional and physical support from an incredible group of talented occupational therapists.
  2. The significant impact occupational therapists have on patients' lives.
  3. The hope occupational therapists instill in patients, encouraging us to achieve what we once thought was impossible.

After thorough preparation and countless rehearsals, I was ready for the big day. We made our way to the University of New Hampshire campus in Durham, a place I hadn't visited in 35 years!

I wasn't alone on this journey. My wife, Michelle, and our 3-legged rescue dog, Trinity, were there to support me. They became highlights of the presentation, both before, during, and after the speech.

As I stood front and center on the stage, addressing a live audience and virtual attendees via Zoom, I felt nervous and terrified at first. But once I started, my mind was at ease as I shared my journey—from being an unemployed quadriplegic to initially landing a job at Neuralink, an Elon Musk company in San Francisco, working on brain-computer interfaces, and now with Precision Neuroscience based in Manhattan, all with the help of my occupational therapists. 

The impact occupational therapists have had on my life has been truly transformative, rewarding, and deeply appreciated. They not only helped me but also a friend, Gabby Murillo, who, like me, is a quadriplegic. They encouraged her to take up painting using her mouth to hold the paintbrush, giving her purpose, dignity, and hope.

The 60 minutes flew by without a hitch, and rather than feeling relieved at the end, I was elated with joy. Seeing the reactions on people's faces as they realized the profound impact they have on lives was incredibly rewarding. The audience's thoughtful questions showed they were fully engaged with the content.

I am beyond grateful and honored to have had the opportunity to express my thanks and appreciation. This experience helped me overcome one of my greatest fears. The next time I’m asked to inspire people by sharing my story, the decision might just be a bit easier.

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